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5 Essential Leadership Skills and Traits for the Powerful Leader



5 Essential Leadership Skills and Traits for the Powerful Leader


Becoming a leader isn’t easy. For some, it comes naturally but for others it takes learning, practicing, and implementing special skills and traits to become a good leader. Leadership can be seen in many settings and is popular in the workplace. That being said, not every leader in the workplace is a good leader, unfortunately. If that’s you, that’s okay because there is always room for improvement. You can become the leader you want to be by adapting new leadership skills and traits. Keep reading to find out some essential leadership skills for becoming a powerful leader.

Leadership Skill #1: Self-Awareness

As a leader, you are constantly being looked up to and observed because people see you as a role model. Because of this, it is important that you are aware of your attitude, what you are saying, the tone of voice you are using, and your body language. Be mindful of how you are presenting yourself during times when you do feel particular emotions like frustration, stress, or anxiety. As a leader, it is important to have emotional intelligence; know when to make calculated decisions during emotional times, and act in control. 7 Essential People Management Skills For The Rising Business Leader

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This doesn’t go to say that good leadership shouldn’t show they also face struggles and challenges, however. Remember there is always an appropriate time and place for handling emotions. Despite this, if you are anxious, depressed, or stressed it could be easily noticed by your team or coworkers. Therefore, be sure you are taking care of yourself, including your mental health so you can be a good leader and focus on work while working. Seek professional anxiety and depression treatment if needed. Addressing your mental health will allow you to go to work the next day feeling a bit better and ready to focus on your team. Being fully present with your team should always be your top priority.

Also, it’s a good idea to coach your team members to be self-aware of their emotions as well. Ensure that they need to take care of themselves too in order to put their best foot forward when it comes to working or dealing with clients. Make it known that they can come to you in times when they are stressed to look for guidance or support.

Leadership Skill #2: Humility

Humble leaders are the best leaders. It’s safe to say that people tend to prefer a humble leader over a dominating or arrogant leader. While humility is not one of the top qualities that come to mind when you think about leadership traits, it is essential for leaders to have. Sometimes being a humble leader can come off as you being a doormat. Unfortunately, that gives this trait a bad reputation. Humble leaders are not pushovers. Instead, they are empathetic, understanding, and compassionate. They are strong in their beliefs and have integrity.

Humility allows you to embrace your confidence not only as a leader but as a person. Having humility opens you up to listening to others’ feedback. Being an active listener for your team is much needed as a leader. Listening to feedback, providing advice, and accepting new ideas and or solutions are key when you are a leader. Interacting with your team like this and trusting their judgment and ideas helps you to connect with each other. It’s essential to stay humble, as your team will connect on another level because of shared humanity.

Leadership Skill #3: Integrity

There are many facets to integrity. Integrity means having strong moral principles that don’t shake when challenged. Leaders that have good integrity are honest, responsible, and accountable. These are great leadership traits to display to your team. Having integrity can foster growth and a good team environment. Who wouldn’t want to have a leader that behaves ethically and does the right thing?

As a leader with good integrity, you are able to have difficult conversations while still being open and honest. Even in uncomfortable situations or times of conflict, you are able to rise above. When dealing with conflict, you hold yourself accountable and admit where or if you went wrong or if you made any mistakes. Because of this, teammates can easily trust you and count on you as a reliable leader. They know that as a leader with good integrity you are able to express gratitude for others by saying thank you for their help or support. You’re also able to respect boundaries with others and establish your own as well. Leaders with good integrity do all this while sticking to their moral principles.

Leadership Skill #4: Reflective Listening

Isn’t it frustrating when you’re having a conversation with someone who seems like they are distracted or not really listening? If you are someone who does this, unfortunately, you’re not being an effective leader. You must learn to listen to others, especially in the workplace, authentically and with your full attention. Whether these peers are higher up than you or you manage them, listening is key. What’s important about this is listening to understand. When you listen to understand, you can respond appropriately and possibly give solutions depending on the situation. You can learn the most powerful reflective listening skills here.

Next time you speak with someone, try to maintain eye contact with them. Try to have open and welcoming body language as well. Reflective listening is all about sincerity. Be sure to pay attention when they are speaking, what they are saying, and most importantly what they are feeling.. Reflective listening builds trust and loyalty because you listen from the speaker’s frame of reference, not your frame of reference.

Leadership Skill #5: Strong Communication

An essential skill that all leaders must possess is strong communication. Strong communicators carefully choose the words they say during conversations. They are conscious of the message they are trying to convey and get the point across clearly. Strong communicators are also fully present in the conversations they are having. Being an active listener is part of being a good communicator as well. Interpersonal Communication-5 Powerful Tools To Rocket Your Business Career

Leaders who display strong communication skills are able to delegate tasks and clearly explain or assign tasks. Help your team stay organized and make it easier on you by using an online task management system. In the end, you will make everyone’s workflow easier.

Leaders that are able to delegate achieve productivity goals and see great team performance. Additionally, as a leader, you need to be able to communicate your expectations. If you want to get through to your team or communicate with them effectively you need to practice these communication skills regularly. Communicate genuinely, practice your communication, and strive to have strong interpersonal communication skills. Solid interpersonal communication skills will help you develop into the leader you are trying to become, and help you create meaningful relationships.

If you want to become a powerful leader try adapting these essential leadership skills. You might find that being a leader with these skills and traits will be easier. Continue to improve your leadership skills throughout your career. Being a leader isn’t easy but it can be done.

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Douglas E. Noll, JD, MA left a successful career as a trial lawyer to become a peacemaker. His calling is to serve humanity, and he executes his calling at many levels. He is an award-winning author, speaker, teacher, and trainer. He is a highly experienced mediator. Doug’s work carries him from international work to helping people resolve deep interpersonal and ideological conflicts.


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