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Advanced Emotional Competency

Learn The Secrets Of Emotional Self-Awareness, Self-Regulation, And Social Power

Expand your emotional competency… even if you have spent your life in emotional denial!

It's All About Our Programming-Part Two

You Are…

Smart with a sharp intellect

Ambitious and have a strong drive to succeed

You are courageous

You are willing to change and adapt

You do whatever it takes to succeed

You are goal-oriented

You get the job done, no matter what

You are driven

You take pride in doing a good job


You're about to be verbally assaulted in a public space by your boss and you freeze.

Someone on your team is being a jerk in a meeting, and you're not sure how to handle the situation.

You feel the need to control everything and everyone around you to soothe your inner anxiety.

You can't get a word in edgewise with your boss or colleagues.

You're not assertive enough…

Or, you are too assertive and are called a bitch or an asshole.

You work with an annoying person that just infuriates you.

Your customers are angry and hostile at every turn.

Work and personal situations can leave you emotionally drained.

You might think something is wrong with you.  After all, you are a smart, educated, successful adult in a management position. You earned your position with hard work and persistence. You climbed over a lot of obstacles to rise to this level of success. With all of this success, why are you struggling with emotions? You should have mastered all of this by now, right?


You have been disconnected from your emotions by your upbringing and training. You've been taught to suppress your emotions. They feel like enemies.

Consequently, you haven't learned the skills necessary to be emotionally self-aware.

This is why that you don't always know how to manage your feelings. You were never taught emotional self-regulation other than to shove your emotions down where they couldn't be seen or felt.

 You are not alone; everyone suffers from the same difficulties.

Advanced Emotional Competency is a step-by-step course that teaches you how to handle emotions in any situation.

Advanced Emotional Competency is a set of techniques for effectively responding to challenging interactions.

Create an entirely new set of reactions to anger and hostility.

Advanced Emotional Competency teaches you the power of emotional self-regulation and social power.

Use your emotions to get ahead in life.

Become a more powerful, confident leader.

Unlock the secrets of self-empowerment.

Become an emotionally self-aware human being.

Enjoy greater freedom from emotional exhaustion.

Advanced Emotional Competency is the first course that teaches emotional self-awareness.

Advanced Emotional Competency trains you to use emotional resources consciously and skillfully.

Learn to become emotionally self-aware and use your knowledge to control your emotions.

Here’s what people are saying about the course


I started working with Doug a few months ago in order to develop skills that would help de-escalate tension while sheltering-in-place with family. The techniques he teaches were very useful to that end. I have found myself incorporating them in many other situations as well, such as with patients and staff in the office, in dialogue with friends, and with my toddler son. Some of his techniques are simple enough that I was able to use them immediately, with profound effect. Additionally, his approach is helping me to conserve mental and emotional energy while navigating challenging interpersonal dynamics, which has been invaluable for this working mom. I highly recommend his training.

Elizabeth Arris LAc

I don't remember where or why I bought your book. However, it has been the most profound life-changing read I have ever put my time and effort into. I am a Clinical Psychotherapist graduating with high honors. I started my own clinical practice several years ago which is successful. My focus is cognitive rehabilitation with a specialty in neuroscience and brain injury. I tell you that only so you know I have read and studied a lot of material. Mr. Noll, your message was received with the utmost appreciation. Through your work, I am a much better person, therapist, mother, friend, wife, and all the other roles I play in life. This book should be a requirement for all clinical therapist to read. I learned more from your book that all my work in grad school in reference to seeing the big picture. Again, I just wanted you to know the impact you have made on my life and how grateful I am.

Tori Johnson

I just wanted to share with you an experience I had the other day when I reflected someone's emotional state back to them. I was in Target and was chatting with the cashier and asked how her day was going. She told me her day was not good and why it was not good. I got very quiet and still within myself, looked up at her and said, "You're fearful." The woman's flood gates opened and she started crying. When she was finished, I smiled, took her hand, looked into her eyes with complete acceptance, nodded to her, and left.

It also works with Alzheimer's people, but in a deeper more fundamental way. They do not remember my words, but a feeling of connection and being heard. The evidence is in their behavior. I'm not sure how long the effects are for them, but in the immediate behavior with early to middle stage Alzheimer's it seems to work thus far.

Jacqueline Thompson

The material on firmly held beliefs particularly blew me away. No wonder we have so much trouble communicating with each other! I do want to thank you for the course and what you have taught me. It has benefited me in a number of ways, including in my personal relationships. All the best,

Joe Garrett

Hi Doug, I have been following you for more than a year and practicing affect labeling I have been also following the weekly Thurs teachings and sharings. I have such good deep results...mostly for myself in my studies. I take whatever emotion that besets me and observe it taking the journey to my frontal cortex. I watch the fear-based energy transform into something empowering. It's alchemy! I'm 66 with a stoic Scottish upbringing, and there are no good emotional tools in that world. So with the many buried angsts that I now can observe, it's more than amazing to watch these transform. With sublime respect and gratitude, Joy!

Joy Herhold

Dear Doug: I wanted to let you know just how powerful and useful I have found the affect labeling and other skills I learned from you. In fact, the most recent example occurred just this morning.

Mark Baer
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Transform Your Life With Emotional Competence

Developing Emotional Competency is an online course that will give you the knowledge and skills essential to life, leadership, and success. This course is for executives, managers, directors, and leaders who wish to change their world. 

Advanced Emotional Competency

This advanced course contains three modules.


Module 1: Emotional Self-Awareness and Self-Regulation

Become aware of your emotional experiences, learn the secret to emotional self-regulation, and re-program the childhood triggers that cause so much pain today.


Module 2: Anger

Learn how to be present with angry, aggressive, hostile people. Understand how to manipulate social power to reduce threats and to increase your personal charisma.


Module 3: Advanced Techniques

Learn the advanced technique of discursive positioning and how to innoculate yourself against emotional contagion.

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About The Course Teacher, Doug Noll

Doug Noll is an award-winning author, speaker, and trainer.

Doug is the co-founder of the award-winning Prison of Peace Project. He has trained mediators and leaders in Europe, the Middle East, and Asia in his innovative peacemaking and mediation processes.

Doug's honors include California Lawyer Magazine Attorney of the Year, a Purpose Prize Fellow, and Best Lawyers of America Lawyer of the Year.

Everything You Need To Know To Take Your Emotional Competency To The Next Level

Turn your negative emotions into smart choices… even if you've had to shut down your feelings to survive in your career!