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The secret to successful dating

Ladies and gentlemen, it's time to face the harsh reality: dating is tough. It's not easy to put yourself out there and meet new people, let alone find someone you truly connect with. 

Lucky for you, I'm here to help.

This is the only guide you'll ever need to become a true ladies' man. This isn't just any run-of-the-mill program; it's a comprehensive guide specially designed to transform you into a confident, attractive, and desirable man.

First and foremost, you'll learn the art of listening. Listening is key to attracting women, and I'll show you how to cultivate it from the inside out.

Next, you'll discover the secrets of communication. Knowing what to say and how to say it is critical to building attraction, and I'll teach you how to master the art of conversation.

From opening lines to flirting to deepening emotional connections, you'll learn how to communicate effectively with women in any situation and much more.

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But don't just take my word for it. Listen to what some of my students have to say:


Stop striking out and start winning today!

You Were Programmed For Romantic Failure

What if I told you that you were programmed for romantic failure? (And that it’s not your fault!) The truth is that we're literally programmed not to succeed at relationships from young.

Remember when you were three or four years old and you fell down, scraped your knee and started crying. What were you told?

"Be a man, stop crying"

"Stop being a sissy"

You were being taught that emotions are invalid, irratonal and evil.

Little did the people around you know that it would be detrimental to your romantic relationship years later.

When we hide and shove down our emotions, we become disconnected from ourselves and others. We struggle to communicate our needs and desires, and we come off as unapproachable or even weird. This can make it difficult for women to feel attracted to us, and it can leave us feeling frustrated and alone.                      Like you are now.

But it doesn't have to be this way. With the right tools and guidance, you can learn how to break free from these limiting beliefs and become the confident, emotionally-aware man that women are attracted to.

And I am more than happy to help you solve this lifelong issue of yours.

So, if you want to change your life forever,

I'll see you inside.

Time to face the truth

We are 98 percent emotional and only 2 percent rational. That's right, you heard me. 

This is not just some wild assertion; it's based on the groundbreaking research of Antonio Damasio, a leading neuroscientist. Damasio's research has shown that emotions play a critical role in decision-making, even in seemingly rational choices. Our emotions are intricately linked to our thoughts, memories, and behaviour, and they heavily influence our social interactions.

This whole idea that the ideal human is rational, unemotional, and aloof from his or her feelings is utter BS. The whole idea that you were taught you entire life.

If you're struggling to connect with women on an emotional level, it's likely that you're neglecting this crucial aspect of your personality. But the good news is that emotional competency is a skill that can be learned and developed. A skill that will ensure-

  • You soothe their anxiety and stress
  • You create a calm, relaxing presence
  • You create emotional safety
  • You create intimacy
  • You validate your date in a profound way
  • Your date knows that you get her like no other person before
You can imagine what flows from those kinds of feelings.

Emotions Can Be Terrifying

You probably already know that emotions can be terrifying. Coupled with feelings of insecurity and maybe even feeling like a complete fake, your inner life is anything but happy and fulfilling.

Maybe you have even numbed out your feelings because of your childhood programming.

But the problem is, until now, you had nowhere to turn to learn skills that really work. Till now

That's Where I Come In...

I developed this new method that has helped countless people just like yourself build confidence and be emotionally competent. I provide free 15 minute consultations, just feel free to reach out. 

  • Make any woman feel emotionally safe
  • Calm upset without being nervous or anxious yourself
  • Know what to say, how to say it, and when to say it in any encounter
  • Be seen as a compassionate, safe, kind, and powerful partner
  • Listen them into existence

The Power of Neuroscience

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Why does it work so well? It’s based on neuroscience, not pop psychology.

Every human brain is hard-wired to respond to emotional reflection. And every human has a deep need to be validated and to feel emotionally safe.

When you learn these skills, your date is not only deeply grateful, they see you as a trusted intimate, leader, and a confident superhero. You become instantly desired.

I can go on and on about the technicals, but you'll probably get bored. I summarised the proven research into real-life applicable techniques that would be applicable to you.

You aren't getting it anywhere else but here.

Emotional competency for men dating course



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Developing Emotional Competency

The basic course, Developing Emotional Competency, contains four modules.


Module 1: Introduction

You will learn about the course and what emotional maturity is all about. Just because we grow into adulthood does mean that we are emotionally mature. We will set the foundation for listening women into existence and attraction.


Module 2: Emotions and Affect

Developing emotional competency requires you understand the science of emotions. We will do a bit of diving into neuroscience to understand what emotions are, why we have them, and how what happens in our brains and body creates complex emotional systems that we can learn to control. The veil will be lifted on why behaviors and attitudes in dating can be so confusing.


Module 3: Affect Labeling

We will introduce you to the first deadly sin, emotional invalidation, and its antidote, affect labeling.  When you are able to read the emotional experiences of a beautiful woman and reflect those experience back to her, you are well on your way to developing your emotional competency.


Module 4: Using Metaphors 

Learn how to use metaphors as a tool of emotional reflection, and begin building your metaphor library. You will be amazed at how your date will react to you as you listen them into existence with this simple idea. By then you would be significantly more confident and you will notice the increased attraction from women almost immediately. Guaranteed.

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About Your Guide, Doug Noll

Doug Noll is an award-winning author, speaker, and trainer.

Doug is the co-founder of the award-winning Prison of Peace Project. He has trained mediators and leaders in Europe, the Middle East, and Asia in his innovative peacemaking and mediation processes.

Doug's honors include California Lawyer Magazine Attorney of the Year, a Purpose Prize Fellow, and Best Lawyers of America Lawyer of the Year.

He is devoted to teaching emotional competency to men and women so they can begin to live the same fulfilling life he lives.