You Were Programmed For Romantic Failure

What if I told you that you were programmed for romantic failure? (And that it’s not your fault!) The truth is that we're literally programmed not to succeed at relationships.

Remember when you were two or three years old and you fell down, scraped your knee and started crying. What were you told?

Don’t be a sissy.

Rub dirt in it.

Get over it.

Big boys don’t cry.

Pull on your big girl pants.

Guess what? You were being programed to become emotionally incompetent.

You were taught that emotions are weak.

Emotions are invalid.

Emotions are evil.

Emotions are irrational.

And you learned that emotions were painful and shameful.

As a result, we all get stuck thinking we need to live out roles that were handed to us.

This can be positive-sounding but devastating, such as "Be tough," "Macho man," "Uber-rational." or many other false identities.

We Are 98% Emotional and Only 2% Rational

For thousands of years, the model of human nature was that we were rational beings. Rationality was what separated us from other animals.

It turns out that this was a big lie.

Neuroscientists like Antonio Damasio now tell us that we are 98% emotional and only 2% rational.

This whole idea that the ideal human is rational, unemotional, and aloof from his or her feelings is utter BS.

And it is the single most important reason dating singles do not recognize nor can they satisfy their date's deepest desire.

That deepest desire is to be heard and validated at a deep emotional level.

And the secret to doing this is learning how to listen others into existence.

When you learn how to listen others into existence,

• You soothe anxiety
• You create a calm, soothing presence
• You create emotional safety
• You create intimacy
• You validate your date in a profound way
• Your date knows that you get him or her like no other person before

Emotions Can Be Terrifying

You probably already know that emotions can be terrifying. Coupled with feelings of insecurity and maybe even feeling like a complete fake, your inner life is anything but happy and fulfilling.

Maybe you have even numbed out your feelings because of your childhood programming.

But the problem is, until now, you had nowhere to turn to learn skills that really work.

Maybe you have an executive coach or even a therapist that is helping you and hopefully, they are. But the sad truth is that most coaches and therapists are not schooled in emotional competency and how to teach it.

That's Where I Come In...

I developed this new method that is a shortcut to developing true confidence and self-worth by teaching you how to be emotionally competent. It’s the best method I’ve discovered to:

The Power of Neuroscience

Why does it work so well? It’s based on neuroscience, not pop psychology.

Every human brain is hard-wired to respond to emotional reflection. And every human has a deep need to be validated and to feel emotionally safe.

When you learn these skills, your date is not only deeply grateful, they see you as a trusted intimate, leader, and confidant. You become instantly sexy.