A COURSE FOR SINGLES SEEKING FUN AND HAPPINESS WITH THEIR DATES
GIVE THE ONE THING YOUR DATE DESIRES MOST
What Your Date Desires Is Not Money, Sex, or Even Love
How you can give your date the one thing desired most? It’s not money, sex, or even love. It’s a deep-seated need that they may not even know they have.
And when you satisfy that need, everything changes.
Now, I want to warn you that this will not work if you are trying for anything other than an authentic romantic relationship.
You cannot use what I will talk about to manipulate your way into bed because it won't work.
You have to want to connect at a deep level, and the main thing we’re going to focus on is what the big need is.
So, when it comes to giving a date the one thing they desire most, we all know we need to have confidence in ourselves. But a huge thing that holds us back is “How do I overcome my weaknesses?” "How to I overcome my shyness and lack of confidence and lack of self-esteem?"
And I get it all the time. Dating singles worried about looking like fools, embarrassing themselves, being rejected, and, let’s face it, being hurt by rejection or ridicule.
I’ll talk about that more in a moment, but first...
You Were Programmed For Romantic Failure
What if I told you that you were programmed for romantic failure? (And that it’s not your fault!) The truth is that we're literally programmed not to succeed at relationships.
Remember when you were two or three years old and you fell down, scraped your knee and started crying. What were you told?
Don’t be a sissy.
Rub dirt in it.
Get over it.
Big boys don’t cry.
Pull on your big girl pants.
Guess what? You were being programed to become emotionally incompetent.
You were taught that emotions are weak.
Emotions are invalid.
Emotions are evil.
Emotions are irrational.
And you learned that emotions were painful and shameful.
As a result, we all get stuck thinking we need to live out roles that were handed to us.
This can be positive-sounding but devastating, such as "Be tough," "Macho man," "Uber-rational." or many other false identities.Really, let’s be honest. Those identities hide our fear and our pain around emotions.
We Are 98% Emotional and Only 2% Rational
For thousands of years, the model of human nature was that we were rational beings. Rationality was what separated us from other animals.
It turns out that this was a big lie.
Neuroscientists like Antonio Damasio now tell us that we are 98% emotional and only 2% rational.
This whole idea that the ideal human is rational, unemotional, and aloof from his or her feelings is utter BS.
And it is the single most important reason dating singles do not recognize nor can they satisfy their date's deepest desire.
That deepest desire is to be heard and validated at a deep emotional level.
And the secret to doing this is learning how to listen others into existence.
When you learn how to listen others into existence,
- You soothe anxiety
- You create a calm, soothing presence
- You create emotional safety
- You create intimacy
- You validate your date in a profound way
- Your date knows that you get him or her like no other person before
Emotions Can Be Terrifying
You probably already know that emotions can be terrifying. Coupled with feelings of insecurity and maybe even feeling like a complete fake, your inner life is anything but happy and fulfilling.
Maybe you have even numbed out your feelings because of your childhood programming.
But the problem is, until now, you had nowhere to turn to learn skills that really work.
Maybe you have an executive coach or even a therapist that is helping you and hopefully, they are. But the sad truth is that most coaches and therapists are not schooled in emotional competency and how to teach it.
That's Where I Come In...
I developed this new method that is a shortcut to developing true confidence and self-worth by teaching you how to be emotionally competent. It’s the best method I’ve discovered to:
The Power of Neuroscience
Why does it work so well? It’s based on neuroscience, not pop psychology.
Every human brain is hard-wired to respond to emotional reflection. And every human has a deep need to be validated and to feel emotionally safe.
When you learn these skills, your date is not only deeply grateful, they see you as a trusted intimate, leader, and confidant. You become instantly sexy.
Transform Your Romantic Life
By developing some simple, easy-to-master skills, you:
THE Basic Emotional Competency course
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Developing Emotional Competency
The basic course, Developing Emotional Competency, contains four modules.
Module 1: Introduction
You will learn about the course and what emotional maturity is all about. Just because we grow into adulthood does mean that we are emotionally mature. Emotional maturity is the secret no one talks about in the dating scene.
Module 2: Emotions and Affect
Developing emotional competency requires you understand the science of emotions. We will do a bit of diving into neuroscience to understand what emotions are, why we have them, and how what happens in our brains and body creates complex emotional systems that we can learn to control. The veil will be lifted on why behaviors and attitudes in dating can be so confusing.
Module 3: Affect Labeling
We will introduce you to the first deadly sin, emotional invalidation, and its antidote, affect labeling. When you are able to read the emotional experiences of your date and reflect those experience back, the magic happens.
Module 4: Using Metaphors
Learn how to use metaphors as a tool of emotional reflection, and begin building your metaphor library. You will be amazed at how your date will react to you as you listen them into existence with this simple idea.
About Your Guide, Doug Noll
Doug Noll is an award-winning author, speaker, and trainer.
Doug is the co-founder of the award-winning Prison of Peace Project. He has trained mediators and leaders in Europe, the Middle East, and Asia in his innovative peacemaking and mediation processes.
Doug's honors include California Lawyer Magazine Attorney of the Year, a Purpose Prize Fellow, and Best Lawyers of America Lawyer of the Year.
He is devoted to teaching emotional competency to men and women so they can begin to live the same fulfilling life he lives.
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