You Were Programmed For Romantic Failure

What if I told you that you were programmed for romantic failure? (And that it’s not your fault!) The truth is that we're literally programmed not to succeed at relationships.

Remember when you were two or three years old and you fell down, scraped your knee and started crying. What were you told?

Don’t be a sissy.

Rub dirt in it.

Get over it.

Big boys don’t cry.

Guess what? You were being programed to become emotionally incompetent.

You were taught that emotions are weak.

Emotions are invalid.

Emotions are evil.

Emotions are irrational.

And you learned that emotions were painful and shameful.

As a result, we all get stuck thinking we need to live out roles that were handed to us.

This can be positive-sounding but devastating, such as "Be tough," "Macho man," "Uber-rational." or many other false-masculine identities.

We Are 98% Emotional and Only 2% Rational

For thousands of years, the model of human nature was that we, and especially men, were rational beings. Rationality was what separated us from other animals.

It turns out that this was a big lie.

Neuroscientists like Antonio Damasio now tell us that we are 98% emotional and only 2% rational.

This whole idea that the ideal male is rational, unemotional, and aloof from his feelings is utter BS.

And it is the single most important reason men do not recognize nor can they satisfy every woman’s deepest desire.

Her deepest desire is to be heard and validated at a deep emotional level.

And the secret to doing this is learning how to listen her into existence.

When you learn how to listen her into existence,

• You soothe her anxiety
• You calm her
• You make her feel safe with you and only you
• You create intimacy that she craves
• You validate her like she has never been heard before
• She knows that you get her like no other man before

Emotions Can Be Terrifying

You probably already know that emotions can be terrifying. Coupled with feelings of insecurity and maybe even feeling like a complete fake, your inner life is anything but happy and fulfilling.

Maybe you have even numbed out your feelings because of your childhood programming.

But the problem is, until now, you had nowhere to turn to learn skills that really work.

Maybe you have an executive coach or even a therapist that is helping you and hopefully, they are. But the sad truth is that most coaches and therapists are not schooled in emotional competency and how to teach it to men.

That's Where I Come In...

I developed this new method that is a shortcut to developing true confidence and self-worth around beautiful women by teaching you how to be emotionally competent. It’s the best method I’ve discovered to:

The Power of Neuroscience

Why does it work so well? It’s based on neuroscience, not pop psychology.

Every human brain is hard-wired to respond to emotional reflection. And every human has a deep need to be validated and to feel emotionally safe.

When you learn these skills, women are not only deeply grateful, they see you as a trusted intimate, leader, and confidant. You become instantly sexy.